| Lo Fun Fact #1 |
| "Lolita Files" is my real name. It is not a pen name, as incredible as that may seem. There are plenty of Files family members and people who have known me for years capable of validating this. As for the "Lolita" part, my mother named me after the movie based on Nabokov's book, although she saw or read neither. For as long as she lived, she had no idea there was anything sexual or seedy about being called "Lolita". |
| Lo Fun Fact #2 |
| I love fried chicken and fabulous shoes (although obviously I can't eat fried chicken nearly as much as I'd like). If you ever want to get on my good side, send Popeye's or Church's (that's right, I said Church's) and a pair of
Christian Louboutins. |
| Lo Fun Fact #3 |
| Never show up unannounced or without a Pepsi. Better yet, how about not showing up at all? |
| Lo Fun Fact #4 |
| I hate the telephone. Don't get mad if I don't call you or take a long time to return your calls. I don't call anyone. Don't call me asking why I don't call. Just don't call, okay? (Exception: I will happily take all calls related to business or to share fun/exciting/major news. I'm just not one for jawing on the phone just to be jawing.) |
| Lo Fun Fact #5 |
| I love the internet!!! I love communicating through the internet!!! You can e-mail me and odds are I'll e-mail you right back (if I'm not in the middle of a major project). Makes up for my hangup about the phone, doesn't it? See, I'm not so bad after all!!! |
| Lo Fun Fact #6 |
| I can't stand IMing. Please don't IM me. I'm always on my laptop and connected to the internet as I work and when IM's pop into my screen out of nowhere, they break my concentration and often startle the sh*t out of me in the process. So don't do it. You will get the cold shoulder. I don't like giving people the cold shoulder, so please don't put me in that position. |
| Lo Fun Fact #7 |
I have four five six wonderful, slap-happy dogs and a cat, all of whom I love to pieces. I had a bird (a Roller pigeon that I rescued in LA on New Year's Day in 2004) named B-Bird (what? that's a good name!) who passed away in February 2009, which broke my widdle heart in half. He loved me so, as I did him. If you meet me and ask me about my dogs and cat, we'll be instant friends, and if you ask about B-Bird, I'll probably hug you (unless you smell...wash first). If you meet me and ask me why the f*ck I have four five six dogs and a cat, see the above fun fact for how I will respond. |
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| R.I.P. Coretta Scott King |
| Tuesday, January 31, 2006 |
 All the people who were a part of The Great Movement that was the backdrop of my childhood (and played a major role in shaping who I am) are slipping away. Another tile falls from the mosaic of my life.
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I am so, so sad today with Coretta Scott King's passing. She was the epitome of grace and strength after her husband's murder. I was always so impressed with how she turned tragedy into triumph. May God bless her and Yolanda, Martin, Dexter and Bernice as well.
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Hey Lo,
I once heard Atallah Shabazz say "for every grey head that is laid to rest, it's like burning down a library." Mrs King was our better version of Jackie O (no disrespect intended). She was beauty, power, strength,FAITHFUL, focused... I banter to find all the adjectives to describe her. I guess I can sum it up with "hero". She has gone home and with recognition of a JOB WELL DONE!
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LBoogie and Victoria, I agree with both of you. This was 'A Great Lady' (to quote one of my favorite books, Margaret Mitchell's "Gone With the Wind"). Great ladies are such rareties these days. They embody grace under fire, humility, compassion, fortitude, and perseverence. Women like this have a way of making you feel like you're the center of the universe when you're in their company, yet all the while you're aware you're in the presence of extraordinary greatness.
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I don't know if anyone has ever met Mrs. King before, but I was fortunate to do so "unexpectantly" in 1985, when I was a Valet Attendant for the Ritz-Carlton, Buckhead Hotel in Atlanta. It was a normal hot & muggy day at work when this shiny, burgandy Chrysler LeBaron pulled up under the hotel canopy. I went around the driver's side to open the door and lo & behold, she was driving and I was in "total"...I mean TOTAL shock!!!
Here's a woman, that in all my life, to that point, I've only seen her in newspapers, magazines and t.v. but to see her before me, the wife of the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. The First Lady. The Queen. I was in just in awe...
She had a kind of regal radiance that as hot as it was, humidity and sweat, feared her. It was like, surreal. But I gather myself together and parked her car in our VIP section. It was only one moment, but I'll treasure it forever.
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Wow! Lance - what an awesome memory to treasure!
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Wow, Lance. What a powerful story, and so elegantly-written. And, most importantly, TRUE (unlike our lying friend James Frey). That's worthy of a free soundtrack (!!!). Send me your addy. Plus I'd like to post it on the blog, if that's cool with you.
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thanks for the compliments gang.
you know over the past year, we've lost a lot of family, not just public figures like Rosa Parks, Luther Vandross & Coretta Scott King but the unknown casualities of Hurricane Katrina.
with Katrina it's like a story that being swept over by the press and the gov't more so than the flood waters of Lake Pontchartrain.
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I am so, so sad today with Coretta Scott King's passing. She was the epitome of grace and strength after her husband's murder. I was always so impressed with how she turned tragedy into triumph. May God bless her and Yolanda, Martin, Dexter and Bernice as well.